Love Isn’t a Feeling

While real love carries an element of passion (I mean, you simply cannot love something or someone and not be passionate about it), real love should never be equated with how you feel. Feelings are ephemeral, shifting with the winds of change. Anything at any moment can change how you feel: If you got enough sleep; if you didn’t have coffee; if your mom called with bad news; if your phone is cut off; if you have no money; if you had sex that morning; if your hair is looking particularly awesome; if you are on a deadline at work; if you had a fight…